Counseling is a professional service for solving specific problems.
It is a professional intervention offered by the psychologist, dedicated to those who require help to understand the nature of psychological problems that concern them and to understand how to start a path for their resolution. The in-depth knowledge of the symptoms, vulnerabilities and resources that follows a first diagnostic phase allows us to orient ourselves towards inner growth, essential for a better psychic balance.
The main situations that affect psychological counseling are:
Family conflicts
They concern all the possible situations that can generate a malaise in personal life; quarrels, feelings of jealousy, possession, envy, revenge, revenge are frequent. Sexual difficulties conflicts between parents and children, conflicts with the family of origin.
Infidelity
The disruptive force of the emotions that can be unleashed following a betrayal, with the chaotic presence of pain, anger, surprise, fear and shame, makes the counseling process particularly delicate and fundamental for the couple. The individual experience and the unawareness of the relational reality in place, can lead to destructive consequences of which one can repent, with all the dramatic consequences for the individual, for the couple, for the family. Timely meetings are important to ” root” the couple before dysfunctional and painful ways for everyone can develop.
Problematic adolescence
Adolescence is a particular period of transition in which it can be difficult to find a balance between conflicting demands (for example, of parents and peers), and in which difficult choices are imposed: the course of study, professional perspectives, choice of friends, of the group, of love companions. It is frequently the period where love and sexual life begins, with all the specific problems. Difficulties with parents and teachers can make adolescents feel confused and above all alone, aggressive emotions can emerge that are not well channeled, at the mercy of themselves and the group of peers.
Child management
Managing children can be a source of uncertainty and guilt at particular times. Especially in the case of divorce and separation, but also in the course of marriage, psychological counseling can help parents understand situations and understand themselves first as human beings and later as parents. The goal is to develop authentic parenting, inspired by love for children and free from personal and generational problems that limit the natural and harmonious flow of love. A child abused, ethically abused, not recognized for what he really is, in the role of parent, many years later, will have a difficult and indispensable development task: to root himself to prevent his ancient wounds from reaching his children, even if masked.
Dr. Cosimo Aruta
Psychologist, Psychotherapist, Bioenergetic Analyst, Family Mediator
Enrolled in the Order of Psychologists of Lombardy with n ° 12147
Psychology, psychotherapy, couple counseling, family mediation studio in Milan
individual psychotherapy – treatment of anxiety, depression, stress of relational and existential distress
couple psychotherapy – unconscious mechanisms can condition joys, quarrels, conflicts, betrayals and
family misunderstandings
group psychotherapy – of bioenergetic analysis, the conduction that is also structured through the language of the body
psychological interview – is a meeting between a psychologist and a person who contacts him because of a
malaise
anxiety and panic attacks – shortness of breath is conditioned by character defenses for infant survival
depression, low energy – nails the individual, sadness, despondency, discomfort, melancholy, take over him
character and relationship problems – need for intimacy and self-expression, fear that the two elements can be excluded